I get a kick out of CSI Miami. If there is really that much cleavage on a police force then sign me up! And ladies.... How would you like to investigate messy crime scenes with your 4" heels and hair dangling?
Chazz,
Not only that... I find it interesting how frequently they shoot the gals from the side.... Just to show how big their chi chis are.... They really like to shoot Eva from the side....
Take Care,
RMG
Last edited by RMG77739; 11/03/0804:28 PM.
"The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before." from "Good Will Hunting"
I like the fact that your daily goals are positively expresssed. Ex: I will..... This is a good way to help retrain your thoughts into always looking positively into the future. It really is all about attitude. You own attitude. As I grow, I find I do not hold any anger towards EX for leaving. I just think it's sad that she has sunk so low and her life is in such shambles.
Well, keep your head up and keep those daily goals>
TD
TwinDragon Thread #11-Dragon, flying - evaluating his world.
I like the fact that your daily goals are positively expresssed. Ex: I will..... This is a good way to help retrain your thoughts into always looking positively into the future. It really is all about attitude. You own attitude. As I grow, I find I do not hold any anger towards EX for leaving. I just think it's sad that she has sunk so low and her life is in such shambles.
Well, keep your head up and keep those daily goals>
TD
TD,
I appreciate your thoughts. The ironic thing is before I Med exW, I was very well trained in my thoughts and attitude. I was always doing my best to filter out the junk.
My exW was a negative, cynical and pessimistic person. She thought reading any "Self Help" books was a waste of time.
Over time, I let her attitude overtake mine. I became like her. I honestly became fearful as well. As a Christian, I believe that fear came from Satan. When we are fearful, we cannot be effective in ANY areas of our life. We are focused on the fear. Satan has us paralyzed.
With all of that written, I in NO WAY blame her for my attitude "shift." I, alone, was responsible for that. I allowed that to happen.
Just for today, I will focus on what God has blessed me with...
Go with God,
RMG
Last edited by RMG77739; 11/05/0804:19 PM.
"The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before." from "Good Will Hunting"
Today is another day to live just for today. My head is wanting to meander here, there, and everywhere.... so my approach is to pick what I will allow and not allow... and keep is simple.
Is this not an outworking of the scripture we talked about when Jesus said "take not thought for tomorrow for today has enough worries of its own".... and the other scripture where it talks about takin captive every thought and bringing it into obedience?
I for one must constantly guard myself from living in my head and allowing my thoughts to go where they may. Thoughts are like children, we cannot let them wander off alone. They could get into trouble.
This is what I am talking about about how AA teaches the Bible in a practical way. This is what helps me on a daily basis.
So... here are my JFT's...
Just for today, I will focus on today and leave tomorrow where it belongs.... in the past.
Just for today, I will trust tomorrow to God.
Just for today, I will pour my energies enthusiastically into the priorities scheduled for today.
Your words on my thread were so meaningful to me. I just wanted to come here and post a thank you. It's nice to be validated.
I love this "Just for today..." topic. I'm going to start doing it myself!
Just for today I'm going to feel beautiful, valuable and worthwhile.
Just for today I'm going to smile as much as possible.
yay! Whitelight
WL,
I have been so blessed to have God send His "helpers" to walk with me on my journey. I feel blessed to have the opportunity to help someone. I am glad I was able to help you in some small way. You are very welcome.
Please feel free to post all of your "Just for Todays" here... I like the ones you already posted! Smiling is a GREAT one...... It is interesting to see how positively people react...
Just for today, when a thought about my exW shoots through my head, I am going to squash it and replace it with a positive thought about my new W...
RMG
"The bad things in life open your eyes to the good things you weren't paying attention to before." from "Good Will Hunting"
