Surrendering to hope

[optimistwife]

Hi ITH,

been away for a week, but it looks like you've been busy! Although you are terrified of the R talks, I have to say that you've done a really good job of making it through them. Try to stay calm and cool with everything.

I hope that H is willing to commit to X-mas plans with you- I am hoping for the same thing in my case. Why do they have to be so tentative about everything?

Just try to take each minute as it comes, and not to focus too much on the future. That is where we all seem to lose it... I am convinced that they (WAS) need lot of the little good minutes to convince them that a future is possible.