Thanks nocode. It is exactly how I feel. No more worrying about me and xH's relationship, other than our mom and dad status.
He laughed this morning because I told him D6 is waiting for him to clip her nails, wouldn't let me do it (Ok, fine, I did it too short one time and she is emotionally scarred lol). Told him she got the clippers out for him tonight.
That's what its about. Being close enough to talk about silly yet important things like long nails, but distant enough so it doesn't hurt anymore.
