Hi Cinders-
I love that song too. It is so true and YOU do deserve to smile. All of us here do.

It will be interesting what will happen with your H and the OW when he lets his true self show and when he finally sees the OW for who she truly is. I hope that day is not too far away.

You have become such a strong and positive person through out this struggle. Even if you have an occasional setback, You should be proud of yourself.

(((HUGS)))