New Here-From Newcomers- hoping for more input...

[optimistwife]

Hi all,

Was out of town last week and didn't get to keep up with things... Since I've been back it's been work, a bad tooth (need a root canal monday and visiting my H! Oh= I got a new puppy too which has kept me on my toes.

Since the 'man cave' has opened up to me (I guess 2 weeks now?) it really makes me hopeful that things are going to be okay in the long run. He will call me on my way home from work to see if I want to go over to spend some time. I am seeing him several times per week now!

It is strange, because the more I am around him the more I miss him. I had gotten to the point where I was doing pretty well at detatching. Now I feel like I am re-attaching?

H is planning on spending today/tonight at the house, so we can spend time together, watch football, etc.

I have also realized that we are coming up on 5 months since this sep. started. WOW. I never thought I would make it throught the first weeks, and here it is so much later. I remember wanting things to be all better intantly, now in retrospect I think that time/patience is really the key to making it through this mess- which ever way it goes.

I am catching up on your threads and hope to post later...