Yea, that is what I think. I want to stay out of their way forever but I just don't know if that is possible if we are together.
His M walked away Aug 07 and didn't make any contact until Aug 08. I spoke with her but H refused. This was after her moving in with 30 minutes notice in Dec 06, creating much chaos, usurping my role in the family, accusing me of having A and cutting brakes on H's truck, (neither of which ever happened)making it so neither S or I (no idea about H) wanted to be home alone with her, saying my neighbor cut up his W and put her in garbage bags and into his trunk, and too many other crazy things to list. So yes, she has abandoned him again. Over the years, he had contact with her through or because of me. She never called him, he never called her. It was just nuts and I"m having no part of that anymore.
If you focus on the past, you ruin the future. You can only live for today.
