Thx Neil, there isn't much to say anymore. Obviously, this is one divorce that should not be busted. I still believe in one man, one woman, and the sacrament of Marriage in the eyes of the Church. I'll be glad when it's over, and I can pursue an annullment. I've never participated in one, but I think it will be a slam dunk, as far as the Tribunal is concerned. I'm off to Mass. Perhaps I'll even pray for STBX, but maybe not. Today, I'm praying for God's grace, to help me find the strength to face the challenges ahead. Thanks, all you DB'ers. You were there for me when my 'friends' developed amnesia and then evaporated. I'm taking applications for new friends. Peace.