Thanks for the encouragement. I'm trying very hard to GAL and keep my thoughts on myself and my kids. It is a start in the right direction because she didn't want to be around me at all before.

I know why she is not sleeping with me anymore though.. She doesn't want me to know when she goes to bed late at night and she also said it stresses her out. Maybe after a while she'll come back to bed if I keep up the good work and not stress her out. I'm not expecting anything, just something that I noticed.

We also had a conversation about Christmas. She said that she was going to only put up a small tree this year because they're leaving Christmas day to go to a wedding in Arizona. I told her that I was going to put up all the decorations and I was going to get it all set up for us. She didn't want to take it down either and I told her that I would do that as well. So the day after Thanksgiving, I'm going to start on things and get Christmas going. I told her our girls deserve to have it no matter what and that I will do that for them regardless if they're leaving Christmas day or not. I'm doing it for the girls. I'm also doing it because thats what a good father would do for their kids.


Me: 37
WAW: 43
D: 5
D: 7
Bomb: 10/4/2008