All, I did get a response 2 days later. He said that he can't see us getting back together, even after all this time.
Says I have been sweet and extremely supportive throughout our separation but he can't get over the problems in our past. I think this means that he is afraid that the problems will surface again.
Says that we had too much fighting and spent many nights sleeping in different rooms. That we didn't understand each other, and didn't meet each other's needs. ---- I am convinced that alot of this is due to the differences between men and women, in the way they interpret each other. Women can across as disrespectful when they are not trying to be, while men can come across as unloving when they are not trying to be. Learned this from "Love & Respect" (loveandrespect.com).
But if he doesn't want to try, he will never find out but just always carry this burden/baggage of unresolved problems from our past and the pain that goes with it. I am not trying to fix him. I am just concerned for his sake.
He says he still loves me, and thinks about me and our dog every day.
I feel SO much love for this man, that he has NO idea just how much. But God does. I pray for him every day for God to protect him, guide him, bless him abundantly, and give him peace.
