I need to figure out how to save my thread so it looks all pretty and not just the url..help please on that one
Anyway..BG..they do lessons at the Harley store?? SWEET..I need to check out their website now and see how much that is..probably look much better than the community college bikes Tom was lamenting about And I'm so happy I found you in alt universe land
{{{Addie}}} Thank you for stopping by and you are right about having time to figure that out..for now, I guess he's downstairs, so that's a start to see how I feel about it..didn't even see him all day yesterday, because he worked, then came home but son and I were gone to the ball game, he came home, but I was upstairs, and on purpose went into my room and then went to bed figuring if he wanted to see me, he knew where I was Guess my doing that and not pursuing my hub at all with phone calls or seeing him when he comes home is very mysterious for me LOL..not me at all (well not the old me anyway)
Well, I'm debating about which church service to go to for this new church I want to try, they have like 4 services..LOL..either a 10 a.m., which I'd have to bust it to get ready, a 12 noon, or an evening 6 p.m...we'll see
Me-39 STBXW-42 together 20yrs M-17 Kids-2 D-18 S-16 Bomb-96 Bomb-2005 bomb- 3/2008 for a year Separated 5/08 Filing in July Today.... Slowly learning a new life!
thats funny so many of us are thinking about it. If and when I do it, it will be when it warms up, and most def at the Harley store. I have watched them it looks fun!! hmmmmmmm maybe its a LBA thing, or its finally US having a WAS mlc thing lol!!!! hugs girlie!
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
Hey, Tawnya!!! Congrats on trip to the game! That was awesome, and I'm proud of you!! And, keep being mysterious. I think that will make H notice more than anything else. I've got to get back to that mindset!!!
Did you have coffee with friend? How was church? I missed this morning because we were at mom's, and we had to leave to get here. I need to be cleaning house, but instead, I'm here catching up on you guys!!!
Let me know what you find out from your Harley store. I'd love to learn...if they have bikes.
hugs to you! Amy
Me 39 H 36 S 7 S 4 T 15 M 12 H out 8/1/08 OW confirmed 8/6/08 D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!
Amy..glad you stopped by..yeah the game was lots of fun! I never did get to have the coffee with my friend or make it to church today, ended up doing stuff around the house and then I was going to go later and now I'm here cleaning (well taking a break and typing) and then I'll probably just end up going home cause I'm not really dressed for it :P
I do love that we will all be motorcycle mamas and papas by the time this is said and done I just checked out my local harley place and HECK YEAH they do have a course and it's not much more than the community college course will be..ooh..do I sign up for the December class?? HMMMMM..I dunno...but I'm tempted I'll let you all know what I decide..hub would probably fall over if he found out..but I dunno if I'll tell him or not! It would be cool and they say that once you get the pass from that you may not have to do your motorcycle test for your license..depending..which is also cool
{{{Tom}}} i.e. Paige..did you find a wand? You need to take a "how manly man am I" quiz really quickly LOL! Hope you are doing okay
OK..so here is my sad story for today and proof that I am a super girly girl (in this case anyway):
I go to the store to buy some new curtains and a curtain rod for my bedroom, we just have a whatever hanging up there, no curtain rod, and I am wanting to pretty up my room, whatever, due to this sitch (I've been cleaning like crazy and so I'm going with it LOL). So anyway, when I get the curtain rod it says you need a drill, no prob, hub is super maintenancey so we have a drill..I get home, I can't find the drill..argh..so I'm tweaked, I"m like..where the heck is the drill? So I have to call hub and I'm like, where is the drill..he actually was nice (probably nicer than I sounded cause I was irritated about not finding it) and showed me where it was, where the battery was on the charger, etc. So I was like, cool, thanks.
Go up to my room with the drill and my stepladder and get to where I'm going to drill the nail in. Ok..and it won't go in..I dunno why, I dunno what the heck I"m doing wrong, but it just won't work. (by the way, I know this sounds lame, but that drill was HEAVY as crap..it's a Porter Cable large drill that I"m trying to lug above my shoulders steady while trying to drill into this stupid hole that won't go anywhere. Sigh..so anyway, I try for a bit and then..I am like, why can't I do this? Now, I'm going to have to call hub again and ask him what I"m doing wrong and (here's the girly part that even while I was doing it thought was sad and funny at the same time) I just start to CRY...HARD..I was like "I don't have anyone to ask to help me do this other than hub, and I need to be able to do this crap without him, and he has done this for 21 years and now I"m suppose to just know (geez I'm about to cry again just thinking about it)..and just CRIED and CRIED..I was like "this is ridiculous crying about this" LOL..
so I finally composed myself and called hub and I was like "I didn't start this project for you to have to help me and I'm sorry, but I have no idea what I"m doing wrong" and he tried to help me over the phone, but he said "just wait until I get home and I'll do it" and I was like "NO..I need you to show me HOW to do it so I'll be able to do it myself when I need to"..so anyway..
By the way, normally I'm NOT a silly girly girl, I am pretty independent on most things, carry in all the groceries, heavy stuff, get my own gas, change our water bottles out (the big 5 gallon ones), etc etc..so I dunno if this is a 180 or not for me..LOL..I know there are THINGS I depended on hub to do that he has said "good that you are doing them now"..so I dunno
Ah...I've had similar things happen over the last few months. It is hard to have to learn new things and it does make you sad to realize that you wouldn't have to learn them if only your H would get is head out of his butt and figure out that's he's wrong!!!! But, once you learn something new, you will feel empowered...like, that's one less thing I need him for!!!
I have also found that the other men I know...from work, friend's H's, even S6's football coach, are all interested in helping me do stuff that H would have normally done for me. So, you can use other folks if you have to...for the most part, they've all been willing to try to teach me how myself as well.
Hang in there...keep praying. We'll all be okay!!!
Love to you! Amy
Me 39 H 36 S 7 S 4 T 15 M 12 H out 8/1/08 OW confirmed 8/6/08 D final on 6/12/09...I'm doing good!