Thank you for checking in on me!! As far as how I found out, I'm kind of sneaky!! I use my cell phone a lot when I'm working on these awards & I have several musicians that I have to call saved in my contacts, there are about 3 of them that have the same first name as my H so one day I called his cell number by accident (that has happened before in the past prior to D & all this mess) well, the voice mail said that his last day with the company he worked for was on Friday Oct. 24th. So, I blocked my number & called their home number, it had been disconnected with no forwarding number. Then I blocked my number again & called her work number & they said she no longer worked there. I pretended I was an aquaintence & asked where she went & they said to China with her H.
Thru all this whole mess last fall, I done a lot of "clever" things! Sneaky but he was not telling me the truth & I had to find out & I did. The only thing I regret is that I did not see his face when he found out that I knew about her. He was in the house with me for 6 weeks after I found out & before he knew I knew about OW. One of those times that he was telling me how bad I was, which he couldn't come up with anything that bad, when I would ask him to tell me the truth, he would say "there is no one & I'm tried of you accusing me" at that point I wish I would have said then who is OW, I would have loved to have seen his face. My lawyer was trying to catch him in a lie & told me not to say anything to him but I wish I would have now it could have made some things different. Oh well, I can't think about the past.
I just hope & pray he will be back soon!
The CMA's are wearing me out this year, I'm having to make some decisions that I don't usually make so I hope it will turn out all right. I have to be there at 10am starting tomorrow & probably won't get home until at least 10pm & then the night of the show it will be later than that. My dogs are going to have to cross their legs! Poor things!!! But I know they will be all right. If I do get a break I'll try to come home but normally there is not much of a break. Hopefully they put my name in the credits again this year, they have only done that the past 2 years & I've worked on this show for 18 years.
Thank you both for your support!! I wish you were here too!!!!
