Today I wanted to take my kids out. My youngest girl was sick so I took my oldest out to lunch with me and then we went somewhere to play some games. My wife was over her Moms house with my youngest. After we got home my daughter wanted to go over where my wife was so I took her over there. It was wierd because I'm not really welcome over there. I dropped her off and went back home.
I had rented the new Indiana Jones movie yesterday. When my wife came home, I had just started it. I was surprised that she was interested and we actually watched the movie together on the couch. There was no touching but at least she felt comfortable enough around me to watch a movie.
After the movie we put our girls to bed and I told her goodnight. She is still sleeping on the matress in her craft room. No idea if she will get tired of that and come back to our bed or not. But at least we had a nice movie together. I think that is a bonus. She's still not wearing her ring. But baby steps - baby steps. I need to make every interaction with her pleasurable so she gets more and more comforatable with me. And the more I do that, I think it will be harder and harder for her to justify leaving.