Upside don't get discouraged. Your h is making progress. Try to look at what is on your h's plate. Trials, more work load, issues with his partner, and then you!
He is overloaded right now. My best advice is to step back and be supportive. Is there anything you could do to help him prepare for his trials.
Yes have no expectations. I am still hearing my h say things in c like he is not sure if he can get beyond the anger. How can we move forward if he is still hanging on to the anger.
Detach and GAL. You are doing good! This takes loads of patience. You do have many positives.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"