Peace if YOU are not ready to be D, then DON"T! Do what feels right in your heart. Then let time tell the tale. It is D*mb hard to do, but if you don't want the D then you really have no other choice. We can't MAKE them decide, if we try we may not like the response we get.

(((Peace)))
TOH

M41
H42
D17
Adopted N14
M22 T24
"Bomb" 4/07
Sep 8/07
Admitted OW 11/07(only to me)
OW back 12/4/07
PA on off thru 7/08
says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08
D final 7/09
Moving on and up!!