I totally agree that I didn't approach it well from the beginning, but my sis has come every year and it would have been odd if I had left her out this year.
I hear what you are saying, but felt like I was caught in the middle. Prior to this crisis my h welcomed my sis with open arms.
What I should have done was asked him when he called early am today. I was half asleep and didn't think of it or maybe I subconsciously tucked it away not wanting to ask. I don't know!
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"