Julia,

thanks for posting to me today \:\) basso continuo could be exciting in a groove sort of way!

this is quite a discussion on your thread!! I know you will make the right decision. something did come to mind. Have you read "love must be tough" by dr james dobson? He talks about writing a "dobson letter" which basically says to the WA, look, you are free to go. I wonder if that is what jody is getting at? I also wonder if she might be recommending this as a long-term move... that might not seem to "work" shorthand but gets some sort of process started inside the WA's mind. PURE CONJECTURE here. but I think the most important thing is that you really mean what you're saying and you're ready to say it.

I'll be here for you whatever you decide to do.

love,
T