Another key line. My MIL once told me that "as a child, XXX could never accept that she was wrong." She said that to me in her supportive days when I was trying to figure this whole thing out and save my M.
IMO, S's...who can never accept their responsibility for the demise of a marriage will almost NEVER be able to come back once they leave. THAT...Jeff..is what we talked about in our VERY FIRST conversation in fall 2006. Although that is not THE answer, it is one of many of the attributes of some of the WAW's here.
Enjoy your children. I have had continuous playdate at my house..video games, screaming....as my STBXW slathered on the perfume and left to go out to the movies.
Be 'glad' that you are where you are now...and not entombed with your STBXW.
Strength and honor.
FIB
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
