I think a lot of the same stuff you do, BH. Once they are full in the fog of A, there isn't much you can do. I also think eventually all of the WAS will realize how crazy they've been, destructive, etc., but maybe a few are too embarrassed to admit it was a big mistake. It's all very sad. But I am glad you sound like you are having a great attitude and good PMA. That is a little bit of my "revenge" against H that I enjoy keeping my PMA and good attitude. I know he's expressed a few times almost like he's upset that I wasn't in mourning and broken up over him! Like I'd give him the satisfaction!!! Karen
