I agree with everyone that it would be nice for you to be there for W this next week. It always struck me that my H wasn't there for me when I went through that (and he was just my boyfriend-well we were living together at the time.) But yeah, your girls should be your 1st priority. Do you have any parents or in-laws that could watch them for a few days or something? I'm sure no matter what you will do you will do the right thing! ((((H4H))))