Cinders I do think you are right about the naivety. I think you mentioned ow in her 20's. Sometimes it just takes some time growing up.

I do believe it could be money, security and attention that ow is getting from your h.

Sorry your friend had to bump into your h at the movies. How ackward could that be.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"