Peace I don't think you need to tell your h any thing. You withdrawing from the D will say it all. He I am sure knows how you feel.

Now you just need to let him be. Let him live his life. Let him see what truly an amazing woman you are. He will see that if you let him.

You can't hate him if you want your m to work. I know what you really are saying is that you hate his current behavior. Don't we all.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"