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[glamgirl]

Peace, why do you feel you need to push for D? Is that what YOU want? If you don't then leave it alone.

If your h really wants a D he will pursue it. I don't know anything about the D in limbo, but what happens if you both don't show?

Me personally wouldn't push for something that I didn't want. If you want a D, then push.

I have been at this for 2+ years and am still very long way off from h moving home. It takes so much patience and loving unconditionally.

My h 8 months ago couldn't see himself ever moving home. Not so sure he feels that today.

Is it possible for you to live your life as if your h is never returning, but being your h's friend? Not worrying what he is up to or how he is living. I know that is hard, but really go on with your life and just maybe he might want to return.