Interesting MsM! I got a vague response back too saying sotry "about it all" and one phonecall where nothing was mentioned! My ex has also been gone a year. I guess the theory is they finally have to face up to what they have done/are doing, as the cat is now out of the bag...

I agree with MsM, if you say things like.. I am enjoying male attention and the possibility of a new R.. if I were him, and I had just moved in with my gf and you sent me that email, my reaction would likely be, grear, good for you, what a relief, perhaps we should get started on that D...!

I dont know why I am so intrigued by this, but its interesting that 3 of us got the same advice/phrases from Jody and in 2 of those cases, it hasnt worked out...

Al x


Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs
IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08
Reconciled 05/09 now married!
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