Hi JCJ, My DBcoach was Jody as well. Many of the phrases she dictated to you she did to me. She warned me that, in my sitch (h left over 1 year ago as well) this could be the turning point. It was. It gave me a chance to really have an R talk with him. Although I had to force a car trade to do the R talk. Probably too much for him - since he has filed for D.

My ow statement to him was vague & he sent just as vague a response back.

My point is - is make sure if this is a bold move for you - that you are totally detached. I was and still am ready for the R to go either way. It went towards the D - yet I am at peace with it.


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)