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Just coming by to check on you Ms. Kat. Keep breathing...I don't think blue would look very good with the Hooters Orange ;\)

Hope you have a great day tomorrow...ok, later today.


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kat you are so strong, really, i just dont think you see the woman we do. thank you for always just being you, we need that!

hey ya wanna help me go find yenko if he goes mia again? I threatened him lol!

good luck, you are friggen awesome, so proud to share this state with you!!!!!!!!


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I have been wrong all this time?? I thought blue and orange looked pretty good together. Maybe that is why my fashion sense is what it is! lol


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Maybe we are looking at 2 different mirrors. In mine I see someone that is upset and scared right now. But while not looking in the mirror and just thinking to myself, I think they just don't know what I am capable of. I am going to pull this off somehow. All ideas are welcome. \:\)

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Kat i see you as a strong woman, and knowing that you are making it, gives me strength, no matter what happens with me!

you need our mirror, get rid of yours lol!


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I love my parents but they are driving me crazy. They are trying to find a solution for me and are calling me 3 or 4 times a day. I know they love me but they really aren't helping. Just stressing me out more by bringing attention to it. oh well, I would rather having them talk to me than not so just got to roll with it.

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Originally Posted By: kat727
I love my parents but they are driving me crazy. They are trying to find a solution for me and are calling me 3 or 4 times a day. I know they love me but they really aren't helping. Just stressing me out more by bringing attention to it. oh well, I would rather having them talk to me than not so just got to roll with it.

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Could you tell your parents that what they are doing is stressing you out rather than helping you, which I'm sure is what they intend? That sounds like something I might do with my kids, but if they told me I was stressing them out I would try my best to stop (although I'd still probably call everyday or every other day! \:\) Karen


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They are just so worried and mad at ex but still not really saying anything bad about him. They let me do that, as they should, if necessary. So I am really proud of them for that.

I told them I really don't know how this will work. If ex doesn't pay me alimony like he is supposed to then I will still be short and won't have much of a chance to make this work. Then of course I still have to find a second job.

My hair is turning gray as we speak!!

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Originally Posted By: kat727
If ex doesn't pay me alimony like he is supposed to then I will still be short and won't have much of a chance to make this work. Then of course I still have to find a second job.

My hair is turning gray as we speak!!

kat
I hope when you see the L he or she can give you advice on how to deal with X not paying alimony. There should be some kind of legal consequences for X, and I hope you will do them!!! Of course, I know the legal system takes too much time though! Hey, my hair started turning gray at the beginning of this!!! Yours waited until now??? Karen


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No, I just color it all the time!! lol It is just time to do it again and it seems to be getting that awful color faster and faster. Just not ready for it to take over yet(sounds like weeds in the yard doesn't it?).

I have been trying to put to paper but I am so critical. I think I will just try to see what comes out when I don't edit so much.

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