Something tells me that he would have gladly accepted....but that is just me. At worst he would have come on a little stronger than when you were lying down with your daughter.
If I may just add a little suggestion (which will undoubtedly get me in trouble with the ladies). Often, woman do not ask for what they want and then are disappointed (or worse) when they do not get it. Maybe I am just out in left field.....at this point I think you need to ask for what you want or at least drop some hints.