Treese, I'm very sorry to hear about your daughter. I do hope she'll be feeling better soon. I'm sure she was pretty banged up. No whip lash?
Sounds like going to the football game will take your thoughts off the situation that you are facing for a brief period of time. Call a friend when you get home. You do not need to be alone this evening.
About your h, he's living in a fantasy world. He's in denial no matter what he says and he's going to get a rude awakening next month. I'm very sorry that the results were positive and he is the father.
I'm praying for you and your family and I do hope that a silver lining in the clouds above will soon open up and bring you some resolution to all of your problems. Treese, take care of yourself. Now, more than ever, you will need to find a way to focus on your children, home, and your life. He's going to have to figure out what he needs to do and soon.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.