He has every right to delete me from the insurance. It was just how impersonal it seemed.. like crossing broccoli off the shopping list.
A friend of mine in HR says you can keep your ex-spouse on as long as you want.. It only changes when you inform HR you're divorced.
He is under no obligation to carry me. And I do have access to COBRA for 18 to 36 months from the final divorce whose premiums will be my responsibility.