New thread? what new thread...uh oh, better go find it.
Nope, now new thread, Michelle just hadn't been to this one yet.
Originally Posted By: whatdidido
Sugar, You are a strong person. It takes a very strong wife to make changes when their husband is doing things that are seemingly and realistically much worse. My husband is like you.
Hang it there.
The problem I am having now is I don't have much more hang in there left. My H pays lip service to wanting to get better and then does the same thing. He doesn't want to get better. He says whatever he has to in order to get what he wants. I'm embarrassed to say that he called and asked to borrow money to live on the other night and I transferred it to him and while we were still on the phone he went and withdrew it and spent it at the cardroom. So I'm just at the end of my rope here.
He is a liar, an addict and I'm not sure that I want to even try anymore. He is hurting my kids tremendously and he doesn't CHOOSE to get better. Its really just too sad. I'm afraid he is going to have to lose everything before he get serious. It just makes me sad to see what this addiction has done to my family in 1 short year, the effects have been devastating.
On a happier note though, I'm going out tonight to have some fun. There is an AC/DC cover band that is going to be here, so I'm going with MIL and some friends to have dinner and see them play. I need this.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
