Matilda, I guess the ball's in my court to show some signs of interest. You're right though, that it will need to become a partnership in order to be worked-thru.
I don't think I'm ready to pursue sex with my W. It's only been two months of abstaining from sleeping elsewhere versus the many months where it occurred.
In order to feel sexual, one must feel connected. The connection is returning, but is not to the point where I feel a stirring to be sexual.
We went out last night to a dance venue, even with her broken toe, so she could listen to music and stay connected to the community. She had a good time, and I got to practice my dancing.
We're going to a play tonight.
CL
CL 53 W 54 M 20 yrs. 03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL 10-14' Piecing
"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."
