Thank you so much for your words of encouragement. I told a lady the other day about H's move & she said what is he running from. I told her "himself" & that is what I truely believe. From what I understand about MLC they keep trying to find happiness but what they don't realize is the unhappiness comes from inside them. I think you could be right about the move could make him wake up.
True, it is so strange how much our sitch is so much alike!!