Kathleen..I can see why you might be upset about the insurance thing but I don't really think that "by law" he has to carry you on his insurance after you are divorced. I know there are some type Cobra benefits but don't know what that is about really. I believe he has to carry the kids, but if he chooses not to carry them then he has to pay more child support.
There will be plenty of things that are not the same once the D is final. It's just the way of the D.
I fully intend to drop Kim from all my insurance the day the D is final..IF THAT MAKES ME A TURD then I'll wear the hat proudly..it's the law...it's the way it is
