H4H, I agree with Dr. Love. IMO, this is almost like a "truth dart". YOU be there for her in her time of need and then remove yourself again. I would almost guarantee it would have an affect on your W. And if it doesn't? You will reaffirm once again what a GOOD PERSON you are. Sometimes you just have to do something because it's the RIGHT thing to do no matter what the outcome.

I know it's a tough time. Be the BETTER man.

My deepest sympathies for your loss.

Hope4us

Me - 49, W 49
S22 & S18
Dday 9/4/07
W claims NC 4/7/08
8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.