SC, I understand that you want to be loving and forgiving, but I don't think that springing yourself on the OW is going to be helpful, no matter how nice you are to her. Personally, I would just leave it alone. That's just my opinion, though, and I'm a bit biased because I haven't even been able to forgive my H yet for the A he is carrying on (with great enthusiasm), much less OW. So take that for what it is worth. Snodderly and YellowRose have been at this quite a while, and their advice is very valuable. Hope you are doing well today!
Peace and blessings, Dawn
Me 45/H 47, no kids Together since 1985; M/1992 Bomb1 (EA-OW1, age 22) 2001 Bomb2 (EA/PA-OW2, age 22) 10/2007, A continues H left 11/24/08 minimal contact, no legal action http://tinyurl.com/DawnHope1
