Hello everybody. Went out to dinner tonight with 8 woman and then to a play that a friend of theirs was in. Dinner was fun and the play was called Honky tonky Laundry and it was about 2 woman running a laundry and putting up with cheating men. Well that was a little tough even though it was a comedy but it was a night out. Needed it, was a tough week but I made it.
enjoy your weekend. T2L are you supposed to see H this weekend? I hope it goes well. take care.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
Yes will be seeing him tomorrow. He took the day off. We'll be watching DS10 football game and then lunch and day trip somewhere with the kids. As of now he says he is not going to be here on Sunday. He says he wants to stay "home" and do nothing all day. I did mention that he could stay the night, but he kinda ha d a dumb look on his face. Guess maybe OW gave him crap when he stayed over last Saturday at the kids request.
I'll update after he leaves tomorrow...hopefully he will cheat on OW....LOL
Me-38 H-38 Married 18years Daughter-17 & Son-9 Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08 Left home 5/08/08 Moved in with OW 08/01/08
The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family. -- Lee Iacocca
Hey T2L, just hanging out. Not tired but I have to take D15 to refereeing tomorrow for 8:00 am. So another day spending with H, I hope he cheats on that OW also...lol. It seems he is spending more time with his family than the Ow. This is good.
I pray to get to that point.
Also, just for fun I googled OW just to see what turns up. I found a wedding site guest book she signed in August saying she was sorry she did not attend the wedding because she has been busy (yeah sleeping with my H), so I went and signed it under her name and said Sorry I have not seen you since I am a homewrecker. Did you hear I am going out with a married man? and did I mention he is my boss??? teehee. This is what happens when you have too much time on your hands.
expose expose
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
quiet??? I'm just checking in. Had busy day. Went to garage sale and bought a bunch of mystery books that I will enjoy. Drove D15 around for all activities and had next door neighbors over who I have been hanging with somewhat. Husband has been fixing my floor tiles as a favor (some have shifted). I made dinner for them and it ended up being a good day. Started off sad so I turned it around with lots of support for T2L and others here. I made plans tomorrow to go to clubhouse and go to pool with my neighbor. One day at a time. survival of the fitest! take care
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
Hey ya'll I'm exhausted! Good to see that everyone is GAL! I can tell by lack of posting! Nice! Found this to encourage you....
Love Island ============
Once upon a time there was an island where all the feelings lived; happiness, sadness, knowledge, and all the others, including love.
One day it was announced to all of the feelings that the island was going to sink to the bottom of the ocean. So all the feelings prepared their boats to leave.
Love was the only one that stayed. She wanted to preserve the island paradise until the last possible moment.
When the island was almost totally under, Love decided it was time to leave. She began looking for someone to ask for help. Just then Richness was passing by in a grand boat. Love asked, "Richness, Can I come with you on your boat?" Richness answered, " I'm sorry, but there is a lot of silver and gold on my boat and there would be no room for you anywhere."
Then Love decided to ask Vanity for help who was passing in a beautiful vessel. Love cried out, "Vanity, help me please." "I can't help you", Vanity said, "You are all wet and will damage my beautiful boat."
Next, Love saw Sadness passing by. Love said, "Sadness, please let me go with you." Sadness answered, "Love, I'm sorry, but, I just need to be alone now."
Then, Love saw Happiness. Love cried out, " Happiness, please take me with you." But Happiness was so overjoyed that he didn't hear Love calling to him.
Love began to cry. Then, she heard a voice say, "Come Love, I will take you with me." It was an elder.
Love felt so blessed and overjoyed that she forgot to ask the elder his name.
When they arrived on land the elder went on his way. Love realized how much she owed the elder.
Love then found Knowledge and asked, "Who was it that helped me?"
"It was Time", Knowledge answered.
"But why did Time help me when no one else would?", Love asked.
Knowledge smiled and with deep wisdom and sincerity, answered, "Because only Time is capable of understanding how great Love is."
Author Unknown
Me-38 H-38 Married 18years Daughter-17 & Son-9 Discovery of EA/PA 4/23/08 Left home 5/08/08 Moved in with OW 08/01/08
The only rock I know that stays steady, the only institution I know that works is the family. -- Lee Iacocca
Well ladies I went to see Fireproof on Friday night and cried for most of the movie! It really hit home for me. I am definitely buying it when it goes on sale.
As for me I went to the quinceniera on Saturday night. Remember the party my H said he wouldn't go to because he wouldn't be going alone. Well guess who called me that night at 2am? Yep my H. I didn't answer the phone. I waited to see if he would send me a text but he didn't. He didn't leave a message either. He just called and it rang like 2 times then I think he just hung up.
What does this mean to you ladies? Is there hope for me yet even though I don't feel like there is? Do you think he was just curious or just wondering if I got home yet or not? I mean either way it shows he was thinking about me. I'm so confused.
I'm calling dance schools today! I can't wait.
Me35/H35 D16/SS14 M-1yr/known H 18yrs 1st Bomb: 4/26 OW35 2nd Bomb: 8/17 OW21 Moved out 8/21/08 H filed D on 9/9/08
God determines who walks into your life...it's up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.
Is there hope for me yet even though I don't feel like there is? Do you think he was just curious or just wondering if I got home yet or not? I mean either way it shows he was thinking about me. I'm so confused.
I'm not a lady and I certainly hope I'm not busting up an all girls thread here but I would say, yes there is still hope. Remember the old saying, "It's always darkest before the dawn."
If you still love him at all, if you still have a desire for your marriage to work, if this is what you want for you life, then as long as you have breath in your body, there is hope.
As the story above says, "Because only Time is capable of understanding how great Love is."
All the best to you and everyone here.
Dash
Me 43: Her 34 M 08/22/2005 Son born 12/31/2006 Suspicion of EA 10/10/2008 EA confirmed 10/11/2008 WAW 10/13/2008
