NLT I would just answer the phone from MIL. What would it hurt. Life is short to hold on to anything but love.

It could be a way to put the past behind you and let go. Maybe MIL wants to do this too. She may want to provide words of comfort.

China could be a good thing for your h. Maybe he will wake up fast.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"