MIL was pretty hateful to me last Xmas when I called just to tell her I loved her & to wish her a Merry Christmas. I knew she would be alone that day so I was trying to be nice, but she wasn't. My H was furious that I called her but she made me so upset that I told her that H had done me wrong & she knew it. Well, she didn't know about OW at the time & that is why my H got very upset with me that I called her. I think he was lying to her even then b/c he said you called telling her a bunch of things & that was all I said, I told him that I didn't tell her anything but the truth. He didn't want her to know about OW & my SIL has let it accidently on purpose slip to MIL that OW has been married so many times, she didn't like that for sure.

No, he cannot speak the language in China. I feel like the OW wants to get him far away from family, friends & me before he wakes up. She is a demon for sure!!!