What is it you want her to do - scream like a porn star eff me eff me,... harder, faster, harder - O god... more !!!! ? Has she ever been like that ?

I understand that you want her to want it, desire it. We all do. What I don't get is you are getting it. She is making the effort and it isn't good enough ? You want more effort ? You know she has a possible physical issue or something. She is embarrassed about it IMO. I am sorry - I don't want to be mean - but - yes - you might be asking for / expecting and pushing too much. My wife won't give me any sex and your complaining yours is giving it to you but isn't "into" it enough. Sorry pal, hard for me who is getting none with a wife who apparently doesn't give a [censored] about making her husband happy on any front to feel sorry for you.

Sorry - yes - I'm in a pissy mood. I was propositioned today and said no because I'm married and want us to make it life/marriage wise. But I could have had sex tonight. And I'm a man pig and want it and am angry my less attractive wife doesn't want it or care.

P.S. - I understand your frustration of your wifes radio talk show addiction. Mine spends virtually all her free time on her computer playing word games, ancestry.com, looking at houses for sale, or whatever. She's on her computer pretty much all the time she's home.