MY man sol!! Thank you for the advice, I realize it's hard when you have a beautiful woman chasin you, I'm soooo needin sex my man it's pathetic, BUT like you said I need time and I've made this crystal clear to her that I'm damaged goods at the moment, She hasn't met my kids, they have an inkling that I'm seein someone but they don't know for sure, I don't like hiding things from them, but I don't want to let them see me in that light, she seems really great, hasn't asked to meet my kids, says when I'm ready, is she just usin me because of my sitch???? I don't think so but who the hell wants to jump into a R with someone like me, unless they are out for sex, should I just let it go at that??? I'm tempted my man!!!!