Hey all, figured I'd move here after newcomers and seperated. Been seperated since June, W had OM about 1 month prior to our sep, She now lives with him and have had very minimal contact, since we have no kids together, tried a few texts here and there, with no response, all of a sudden she called me to ask to go to mediation, I said I would but it was a waste of time since we'll never agree on financial things, anyways she signed our divorce agreement 3 days ago so I'll be divorced in 2 weeks with no court appearnces, I did leave her a voicemail, first one in 4 months! telling her how I felt AGAIN!!! That she would regret not believing in me and that any man that would break up a family of 5 kids is only going to cause trust issues down the road.(we had kids from previous marriages, 2 my own, 3 hers) she actually gave up her kids to her ex to be with this new man, she cut off contact from my stepkids 2 weeks after she moved out, I still miss those damn kids soooo much and so do my bio kids, they knew each other for 5 years, we met when the oldest was 7, they grew up together and it breaks my heart:( I've finally realized my marriage is over but I have a few questions for everyone. I obviously still think about her sometimes,well to be honest she still is in my thoughts every day briefly, especially because my kids still talk about when we were a "family", For some stupid reason I know in my heart that she will regret what she has done and I'm still willing to forgive all thats happened, But at the same time I'm being rational now, instead of emotional for a change, my question is I've had a couple of intersting women approach me, but I don't really think I'm ready for that, except for one, she is confusing the hell out of me because I kind of have a good feeling about her but I don't think it's fair to her because of my lingering thoughts about XW, I've told her this and she seems ok with it, Am In being sucked into a rebound thing? I don't want to hurt her but she is persistent,she seems like such a good thing but doesn't it strike you as awkward that a woman would put up with this sitch???
