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Thanks yenko, Corey, Karen and lwb. Like I said I just told him that I needed to hear it and you guys all came to see me. Hugs to you all and the sweetest of dreams.

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Kat, people are around, even when you don't think they are.

Glad your feeling a little better. I haven't been posting a whole lot. Lots going on in my life too.

Take care.


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I know sweetie. Thanks for stopping by. I am still keeping up with you. What a mess!

kat


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I lurk a lot, but haven't been posting a whole bunch. Hoping that everything works out for you...you and the kids are in my prayers, always.


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Thanks. Yesterday was an emotional blow. I thought I would get options. Instead they only had one program and with the bills ex is supposed to be paying thrown in, I couldn't do it. I put those in because my name is on them. I am going to try to speak with an attorney and see what options if any others that he/she can suggest to protect myself.

It is a new day. A clean sheet of paper and I can edit as necessary.

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Originally Posted By: kat727

It is a new day. A clean sheet of paper and I can edit as necessary.


I like that. You always have a good attitude and try to find the positives. Heres hoping your paper is filled with good things today.


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I try and that is all I can do right now. There are certainly moments where I don't feel so confident or cheerful. I just have to remember to take one day at a time... oh yeah and to breathe.

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Quick update: tried to contact a L that a friend used to work for(so did ex so many years ago) and found out that he couldn't help me since it would be a conflict of interest!! I do have an appt. with a L, Monday night. They give a free consultation and even will do evening hours. Only drawback is that I have to drive to Lawrence. Oh well.

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Hey sweetheart, sorry to see the crap your ex is making you go through, I was reading your post and you still manage a joke

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I just have to remember to take one day at a time... oh yeah and to breathe.


I'm sorry I'm not here for you as much as I should be, I don't even think I turned on my computer in almost 2 weeks. Life is got me running in all directions

I'll try to check in more on you - doorbell is ringing I have to go


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I was looking for your thread today and got busy. I haven't been as good as I should be about checking in on you. I wonder how you are doing and here you come and find me!

Hugs, kat


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