A bunch more happened today. Dare I say it was all MAJOR? Oops I said it.

I went by X 's work after I got off today. Wasn't quite sure why and even questioned myself as I drove there. When I walked in the door X said, "OMG, you must have esp." I bit my tongue (thanks Dave) rather than reply, "Why yes WE do. Have you still not noticed after two years of continued extra sensory connection even though we have been separated and divorced?!?!" She continued that she was just about to call me. She is still sick and asked if I would keep my phone on and pick up kids for her if she couldn't get off work in time. While there we discussed several behaviors the kids have had lately that are reminescent of when they were babies. I agreed to keep my phone on and left.

Later I called her at the appointed time and she told me she was able to get off and wouldn't need my help. She called a few minutes later and asked what I was doing. She then engaged in small talk (economy, politics, the usual and current). She mentioned several times she is worried because she is still sick.

She called a little while later and asked if I would meet her and kids at a store. It was very close to where I live so I agreed.

While there she had me listen to her chest TWICE. That's right, me slightly bent over with my head in the middle of her now surgically enhanced boobs and the middle of the store. She mentioned how it was calming her down that I was with her. ("Madam, it may be calming you down but it's definately raising my interest" Groucho Marx ) At one point I gave her a hug which she accepted.

We did a little Christmas shopping and talked about our kids a great deal while there. She asked what my plans for the holidays were as I have the kids both of those weeks. I described some tennative plans and asked if she had any plans (last year she went on a trip w/OM). She responded she had no plans.

She asked me twice to go to dinner with her and the kids but I declined by saying I'm watching my weight. (I don't want to appear too egar or available) I finally convinced her to go home, take a hot bath, eat something there and crawl into bed with our kids and watch a movie. I told her she needed to rest and that would be more restful than going out to eat. She agreed with my suggestion.

I walked her and kids to the car after she made her purchases. I then went back into the store at her request and made a purchase for DD that X requested without DD's knowledge.

I think I should call her before retiring and check on her.

Last edited by sleeper; 11/08/08 01:46 AM.

"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib
Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12
Bomb and OM 12/15/06
Separated 01/02/07
Divorced 05/13/08
X married OM(OMH) 08/2009
Married 06/09/13