You are so right I just had a big backslide moment!!! I have been fighting with myself trying not to bring up the PA with W she just kept saying things like I don't keep stuff from you etc. It was driving me nuts. We Just had a conversation in which she brought it up " you think I am with OM" calmly and I got sucked in the conversation was calm she denied but didn't get upset defending herself ( which one would do if she was being truthful)anyway I guess I thought I would feel better but it only made me feel worse (Lesson Learned) I caught myself and left.
So I guess that your words are wise Don't look back look forward.
Jeff
ME 44 W 32 M 5 T 6
no kids
June 08 I don't want to be married it's not you it's me
