Thanks yenko, Corey, Karen and lwb. Like I said I just told him that I needed to hear it and you guys all came to see me. Hugs to you all and the sweetest of dreams.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
I lurk a lot, but haven't been posting a whole bunch. Hoping that everything works out for you...you and the kids are in my prayers, always.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Thanks. Yesterday was an emotional blow. I thought I would get options. Instead they only had one program and with the bills ex is supposed to be paying thrown in, I couldn't do it. I put those in because my name is on them. I am going to try to speak with an attorney and see what options if any others that he/she can suggest to protect myself.
It is a new day. A clean sheet of paper and I can edit as necessary.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
It is a new day. A clean sheet of paper and I can edit as necessary.
I like that. You always have a good attitude and try to find the positives. Heres hoping your paper is filled with good things today.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
I try and that is all I can do right now. There are certainly moments where I don't feel so confident or cheerful. I just have to remember to take one day at a time... oh yeah and to breathe.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Quick update: tried to contact a L that a friend used to work for(so did ex so many years ago) and found out that he couldn't help me since it would be a conflict of interest!! I do have an appt. with a L, Monday night. They give a free consultation and even will do evening hours. Only drawback is that I have to drive to Lawrence. Oh well.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Hey sweetheart, sorry to see the crap your ex is making you go through, I was reading your post and you still manage a joke
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I just have to remember to take one day at a time... oh yeah and to breathe.
I'm sorry I'm not here for you as much as I should be, I don't even think I turned on my computer in almost 2 weeks. Life is got me running in all directions
I'll try to check in more on you - doorbell is ringing I have to go
M45 W41 M10.75 years D9, D7, D7, S5 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 W files for D 07/18/08 Amount of time WAM spent with kids so far this month = 0.25
I was looking for your thread today and got busy. I haven't been as good as I should be about checking in on you. I wonder how you are doing and here you come and find me!
Hugs, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory