That's just crappy of your H to do that. Give you a check, you don't cash it right away and now he's telling you he doesn't have the money anymore. Typical behavior from someone who can't get their life in order.
I totally understand wanting out of limbo. You need that for yourself. Are you still going to wait for him to try to get his crap together or are you throwing in the towel?
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
Well, have to work tomorrow, but it'll be a short one at least - don't have to be there til 9 am!
I got a later flight back on Wednesday so I'm actually leaving after dinner (hint hint Jeff??? )
I don't need the money, but it is frustrating. And yes GF, I think you're right. I think because he was acting a little more mature/responsible/normal that I expected he might act like an adult. But of course it was only temporary.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2
Hey Michelle, That is a shame...considering what he has put your through, he ought to let you cash it and just be in debt himself, or somethig. Anyway, about him being an adult.. I guess its too soon for that!? He's still 26 and under the C sorting his PTSD out, so could take a while yet, right ! I'm a hopeless romantic, so I would say give him time. But if you;re not feeling it, you're not I guess.
Great you might get to see the lovely Jeffmeister again!
Al x
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
