I don't recognize her anymore

[faithisbelieving]

I agree. There is no plan right now Jeff...except for the forensic CPA to appraise my practice. After that....offers can be made. Remember...I don't simply take home a paycheck. I have a practice and also work in another medical venue. That complicates matters. I have a litany of things to do now between 20 pages of questions about my practice, tons of receipts, 1099s, CV, returns, etc...to ship in...an appt with him to come to my practice and inspect and tear it apart.

Remember now....fair equitable share not only extends to the house but MY PRACTICE AS WELL. There can be no 'offers to get it done' before my practice is valuated. Then..it comes down to THAT...and custody.

What should I be doing in the interim?
-should I steal something of hers?
-should I photograph HER if the kids run into her bedroom?
-should I start making nasty comments to her?
-should I get up earlier in the morning to beat her out of making the kids lunches so I can say that I did it?

I agree with amyC. Dealing with my W....I can see this becoming MUCH WORSE before it gets better. Quoting an email a friend sent to me today, who is post D:

I will tell you what I have been told all along...as long as they are angry and you are the target...it continues...D or no D.

My W is an angry woman.

FIB