As long as you decide that you are going to forecast gloom and doom that's exactly what you're going to attract. Go ahead and think about that worst case scenario and dare to imagine yourself surviving it.
You would, you know.
Now once you've wallowed in what might happen worst case, get up and get back to work busting your ass to effect the outcome.
DBing is not the place for foolish pride or the faint of heart.
What do you believe in?
Then get up and fight for it.
And stop the BS with that other woman at your dance class.
You're contradicting yourself and compromising your stand.
Early in my stand I heard someone say "If you're asking God for something big, be prepared to stand long".
Well you have to position yourself for a blessing.
And it sure as hell ain't coming if you're making goo goo eyes at someone else across a dance floor. I don't give a rip what anyone else tells you, either. THIS is YOUR sitch and YOUR life. If you're ready to quit and move along, then do so. I wouldn't blame you, this is one hellish ride, but don't compromise yourself and do a half-assed job at trying to save your marriage just because it feels good to get your ego stroked and people in the world don't bring you hope.
You have to look WITHIN to find hope. Then you have to look up.
If you wait for the world to support your stand you will be waiting forever.
There's an enemy of the family that's working overtime in the world today. Whether you like it or not or believe it or not, you are in a war and one way or another, you WILL pick a team.
If you want to cave in to the one that came to steal, kill and destroy and has set his sights on your household, then you go right ahead but from the minute you read this you will be doing it knowing full well you had another option.
There is a fight to faith. It says so in the Bible.
