LE..wow thanks for posting that to Tx, think I'll take some of that ", but I think that is a key to success in any relationship is being able to put your needs aside at the times your mate needs to have their needs met first."...that's a tough one to swallow, but I need to think of that when I feel so rejected/dejected by my hub \:\)

{{{{Tx}}}} I'm so glad you are doing better..I couldn't post for the past few days because of a prob with my account here, but as I read your posts and how you felt and what you said for the past few days, I just wanted to cry too, because that's so how I feel. I'm so glad you were able to have those talks and times with hub and not feel that pit..gives me hope that my pit will go away too \:\)

I'm SO glad you are going out and having some fun tomorrow..I hope you can enjoy it!

Tawnya