Well from my experience I can say Jody is usually right...on 2 occasions she's made suggestions that I've resisted, but in retrospect should have listened to, things that seemed painful and counterintuitive, but might have saved me a lot of grief!
That email is quite bold I have to say! I do wonder what your H will say in response, or whether he may just ignore the parts he doesn't like...what does Jody think his reaction is likely to be?
After you send this email, what would your next steps be? Glad to hear that you are feeling more positive and that you know you still have options :).
ITH
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!
