Finally heard from H, nearly 4 hours after sending the initial text...I think he has been out drinking, but whatever...He was supposed to pick me up in the morning (his suggestion), and asked if I could "come home" instead. Then I asked if there was a specific time he wanted to go, and he wrote back immediately and said outlet. This is why I think he's drunk since he didn't even read the right question. So then just followed up to ask if there was a time he wanted me to be there, and now no response again. Pretty annoyed. I have a feeling he is going to be hungover in the morning. I think my new plan is that I am going to call around 10, and get an idea about whether he actually still wants to hang out. If he is irritable and sounds disinterested or like he is doing me a favor, I may in fact decline to spend time with him and go over on Sunday instead. I know I am assuming things already, but I'm just trying to be prepared...I have to admit that when I first saw the text asking me to come home I was worried that he wanted to have another R talk and this was why he wanted me home. I guess him being drunk is better than this, but maybe this is still his intention...wish I wasn't obsessing about this so much.
So, we'll see if I hear back from him again tonight. My money is on not hearing back. I will probably need to call him in the morning.
ITH...
Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be S 07/28/08-11/08/08 Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!